Grindr is an online dating and hookup service that work much like other dating sites. You create a profile, fill it with information, and you wait for people to contact you. If someone contacts you, then you chat with them, if they don’t talk to you then you don’t talk to them.
Now the fact that Grindr works like this is great! The only thing I don’t like about it is that the people who actually use it for things other than hooking up tend to be very boring! So what kind of people are on Grindr? Well, let’s look at the top three groups of people who use Grindr.
Everyone knows that the biggest group who uses Grindr for chatting and random chat are young, white, straight men! But let’s take a look at the top three groups of Grindr users. These groups are what most of the gay media has focused on as being the group who “gets laid” on Grindr.
The first group, which the gay media has focused on the most, is young, white, straight, straight men! Of course, the media concentrates on these groups because they use Grindr for a lot of their communication. Most of the time, when these groups are not getting sex from someone, they are just talking on the app.
This second group is almost always also a strong relationship between two individuals who are in the same room. Sometimes, this is not even a “room”, but simply just two people sitting on a couch together.
Finally, there are the “men who get laid” on Grindr, women. Gay men don’t typically “get laid” as much as women, but they do have an equal chance to “get laid”. That means more women use Grindr, and more women are “getting laid” on Grindr.
The big thing that separates these groups is that women use Grindr to chat and make friends, while the gay men on Grindr use it for random chat. When you use Grindr to chat, you will be in an entirely different type of relationship.
In fact, I’m not sure if any women ever talk to their profiles. The women who are chatting with people are obviously in a strong relationship and they don’t want to do anything that might ruin it.
Now then, how do you use Grindr to make the most out of it? First off, women, be careful!
When you use Grindr, make sure that you get people to talk to you. It’s possible that you’ll chat with some men, but those are the ones who will be talking with you. On the other hand, some of the women who use Grindr to chat are trying to get men to talk to them. You see, the women who chat and flirt with men aren’t trying to date them or anything, they just want to talk and get people to talk to them.
But just be aware of this. Sometimes, it will turn out that you were chatting with a man who is interested in doing something sexual with you, but then he suddenly changed his mind and says he just wants to have a chat. So try to avoid doing things like this.
Grindr is an amazing tool that is all around us. It’s meant to help us get dates and make friends. So don’t abuse it, get your life together and use it for what it was made for.